FAQ’s About Living and Working on a Cruise Ship
By far what I get asked about the most is what it is like living and working on a cruise ship. There are some questions that I get asked over and over. After working on a cruise ship for years in various positions – and being married to an engineering officer – I have spent a huge bulk of my life onboard cruise ships. I also quite like cruising and have been on probably 20 or so cruises just for fun.
With that in mind, here are the most frequently asked questions that I get about living and working on a cruise ship.
Cruise Ship Working Conditions & Labor Laws
Q: How many days a week do cruise ship crew work?
A: The majority of crew work every single day of the week while working on a cruise ship. The day of the week becomes unimportant as there is no weekend!
Q: Is work onboard a ship regulated by labor laws?
A: Yes. There are various international maritime labor laws that regulate both the working conditions and hours that crew members are allowed to work. It goes so far as to designate how many rest hours crew members are required to have.
Q: Are cruise ship employees treated well?
A: Working on a cruise ship is hard work. Very hard work. But, as long as you don’t mind hard work, it’s not so bad. In general I think that the crew welfare onboard has been continually improving over the years. There are various crew events – like parties, Bingo, raffles, and tours – to help improve crew welfare onboard.
In addition every ship has a Human Resources Manager, as well as dedicated staff to help manage crew life. Whether that be reprogramming your cabin key, making sure you get paid, or ensuring you’ve got flights home, there are dedicated crew onboard the ship to help the crew. As with any job though, some of those people are more dedicated to their work than others.
What rank you have onboard has a huge affect on what privileges you get.
But, in pretty much every job there are good days and bad days. In the passenger facing positions there are days when you go to work with a fake smile plastered on your face and you have nothing left once you get back downstairs after a passenger shouts at you about something. Each position comes with its own set of perks and rules that you need to follow. The higher ranking you are the more perks and privileges around the ship you have, but usually the more responsibilities, too. Overall in my experience the crew are treated well.
Where Do You Go?
Q: Where are you stationed out of?
A: In cruise ship world you don’t have a place that you are “stationed” out of typically. There is the port that you embark in, either a home port or a turnaround port, and where you disembark the ship.
Q: Where Do You Sail When You Work On a Cruise Ship?
A: It depends on what cruise you’re on! While I was working as a crew member I spent a summer in the Baltic and Norway, including crossing the Arctic Circle, a couple in the Mediterranean, several in Alaska, I went to Hawaii, Mexico, the Caribbean, Canada/New England, as well as the South Pacific, Asia, cruised on the Amazon River, have sailed through the Panama Canal many times, the Suez Canal a few times, and even spent a summer in Rotterdam on a ship that was being used to house refugees. Cruise ships literally go everywhere that water goes and you really can end up all over.
Q: Do you always go back to the same ship?
A: Most crew members do not return to the same ship again and again. They might go back to it a few years later, but usually it’s a different ship every contract.
It is common place for officers to return to the same ship for several years though. And, in my case as my husband was getting assigned to the same ship they worked to assign me to that ship as well. Pre-pandemic it was the same ship for nearly 5 years, after restarting from the pandemic it’s now been the same ship for two years.
That is not the norm though, and most crew will go to different ships for each contract.
Q: Is Working on a Cruise Ship a Real Job?
A: The short answer to this is – yes. For whatever reason there is a preconceived notion that people that work on cruise ships are all people in their twenties and they all only do it until they get a normal person adult job. There are so many different jobs onboard a cruise ship. Some people only go work at sea for a few years and for others it is truly their career.
Q: Can crew members get off the ship?
A: It depends. While working on a cruise ship you can generally get off the ship while the ship is in port if you aren’t working, have a safety drill, or are on in-port manning. Some cruise ship crew even get days off.
Q: Do you work on your very first day onboard?
A: Yes! It is expected that crew will work their very first day onboard. Take a look at these posts about what to expect on your first cruise ship contract:
- Your First Cruise Ship Contract: Getting to the Ship
- Your First Cruise Ship Contract: First Day Onboard
- Can Cruise Ship Crew Get Mail?
- What to Pack When Working on a Cruise Ship By A Crew Member 2024
Q: Can the crew date each other?
A: Absolutely! You really aren’t supposed to date your direct supervisor, but aside from that, yeah, it’s pretty much okay, practically expected, and very much so done.
Take a look at these posts about falling in love at sea:
- Cruise Ship Crew Romance: Dating on a Cruise Ship
- Falling in Love at Sea: Living Together On a Cruise Ship (By a Crew Member)
- Falling in Love at Sea: “Happily Ever After”
Q: How much do cruise ship crew get paid?
A: Why do people ask this? I get that they’re curious but honestly it’s rude. I feel like the next time someone asks me this I will ask them that same question back.
Anyways, The answer: It depends on what job you do on board. My experience is that people are paid somewhat in accordance with what their responsibilities are as well as what their qualifications are. I will say that jobs that are more “career” jobs (officer positions) typically pay better than those jobs that people do in their twenties and then head off.
Q: What does a crew cabin look like?
A: A quick answer to that: it totally depends on your jobs onboard.
When I was working onboard to start out with I had a small bunk cabin, although I usually didn’t have a roommate. This cabin had a small bathroom with a shower, a desk, and two closets. For the next role I did onboard I had a cabin to myself with a double bed, a couple of closets, a mini-fridge and a desk, every once in awhile I’d get a window, too. Then, there are crew cabins with roommates and two cabins will share the same bathroom (so four sharing one bathroom). There are inside cabins, and there are cabins with portholes and windows.
My husband, has a pretty nice room. It’s big – for perspective it’s big enough for me to do yoga in. There is a a large desk, a couch, a tiny bathroom (my biggest issue – can’t they make the desk smaller and the bathroom bigger?), a mini-fridge, a very comfortable bed, and a glorious big window. Aside from me my husband never has to have a roommate.
The majority of crew members do not have a window and quite a few of the crew cabins are actually down below where you can have a window as they are either at or below the water line.
The Basics
Q: When do the next passengers get onboard?
A: A cruise ship operates 24/7/365. Some years it has dry-dock, which means that it won’t have passengers on it during that time and will be undergoing necessary maintenance and upgrades, but other than that, there are always passengers on board (except during COVID).
Q: Do a lot of American’s work onboard cruise ships?
A: There are a lot of passengers from the United States. Crew? Not so many. There was one summer over the Fourth of July with a crew of about 600 we counted about 15 US crew members. In the past few years though that number has dropped down to just 3 or 4 sometimes. However, what is fun is that in that crew of 600 there are typically about 40 nationalities represented with just as many languages spoken. However, all crew members need to be able to speak English (on US based cruise lines) to both be able to talk with guests, but also to respond to instructions in an emergency.
Q: How old do you have to be to work on a cruise ship?
A: Most of the main cruise lines require crew to be 21 years old. However, there are times that there will be cadets or interns onboard will be as young as 18 years old. Different parts of the maritime industry will bring on cadets as young as 16. The majority of positions on a cruise ship require crew to be 21 years old.
Q: Isn’t working onboard a cruise ship just like being on vacation?
A: As crew – no, you aren’t just on vacation. There are different jobs that allow you more time ashore and there are some jobs that require you to stay on board a lot more. Overall everyone that is working on a cruise ship is working very hard.
Remember, the pictures you see posted are from the good days – the fun dinners, or the great times ashore. They aren’t the days when everything went wrong and you have nothing left to give. It is not a vacation.
Crew Bar
Q: Can passengers go to the crew bar?
A: Absolutely not. Hell to the no. The crew love the passengers, but they don’t love them in the place where they can actually relax and unwind. The crew bar is a crew only (plus spouses and friend-on-board!) area. Also, there is no point trying to sneak in. Passengers stick out like a sore thumb and you will get subtly booted very quickly.
Q: What’s the Cruise Ship Crew Bar Like?
A: It’s a great place to meet your spouse! Well, at least that’s where I met my husband. It is a place full of rumors and gossip and lots of fun.
There is always music, sometimes theme parties, sometimes trivia nights or bingo.
Cruise ship crew do have strict alcohol guidelines – basically crew have to be able to respond to an emergency regardless of the time of day or whether they are “on-duty” or not. While onboard the ship you can get called to work at any time.
The crew bar is overall a lot of fun. It’s a place to let your hair down and relax and lament about things that happened – the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Crew Benefits
Q: Can Crew Bring Their Families or Spouses Onboard?
A: There are policies in place for some crew to be able to bring some family onboard.
The majority of cruise companies offer the benefit that if you are a high enough ranking officer you can have your spouse or your children come sail with you on the ship. There are also some policies where you can bring other friends and family onboard. Over the last year my mom came to sail for a couple weeks in the Mediterannean and one of my friends came as my plus one for just over a week along the West Coast.
I have also sailed as a plus-one of my husband or as “spouse-on-board” and am free to participate in the majority of passenger activities, as well as most crew activities. There is one caveat to this: while there is always room in my husbands cabin for me, there needs to be enough capacity in the lifeboats and life rafts for me as well – so, if it is a particularly full ship of passengers (with many cabins having a 3rd or 4th person in them) then this could possibly be an issue. This same concept exists for the children of the crew member as well. However, it’s never been an issue for us, yet.
This is a huge benefit. In general whoever comes to stay onboard needs to stay in the crew members cabin. (So, no, you aren’t bringing 10 people onboard).
There are also limits to how much friends and family can come sail. For spouses and children it is usually most of a contract. For friends and other family it may be for a few weeks or a month or two depending on the companies rules.
On paper this sounds pretty great – and so much of it is – but it is also really hard. You do not necessarily “fit” anywhere on board. You are not a crew member so you can’t lament with the other crew about your day – you don’t have a “team” that you are a part of. You are not a passenger, and you can’t most of the time truly be yourself around the passengers.
One big thing though is that the family you are visiting still has to work. You don’t get to spend an inordinate amount of time with your spouse/parent/friend, and most of the time when you go ashore you will be going ashore alone or with other friends that you make, as whomever brought you on as a plus-one will probably be working. There are great parts of it and I am so grateful that these policies exist.
Q: When Sailing As Wife-On-Board On a Cruise Ship Can You Go Ashore?
I can get off the ship basically any time that I want as Wife-On-Board. I always have a guests first mentality so I rarely get off the ship first thing in the morning (to allow the guests time to get off the ship first) but I can spend nearly all of the time that I want off the ship.
Conclusion: Cruise Ship Crew Life FAQ’s
Overall living and working on a cruise ship is an incredible experience. I have been able to travel around the world and meet people from so many different places that I can now call my friends. It is also where I met my husband.
It is not for everyone and it is super hard work. But, if you can deal with the long days, and the sometimes hard days, what you get is an incredible and rewarding experience.